Rendezvous with ‘my’ childhood :)

Preetipandey*****: waise Delhi chale jaoge ...to itni baate nahi ho paya karegi na?

sourav.c.pandey: wahan to aur bekaar hota hu...!!!! :D

preetipandey*****: MAI NON- VEG BHOOTNI HU!! daro mujhse

sourav.c.pandey: hahaha....dekho mai darr gaya ... mere nakhoon se pasina aagaya ! :O

preetipandey*****: hahaha....chalo ab aur nahi daraungi ..

badi bahadur hu na...mai aap to jaane hi ho

me: hahaha...ab mai daraunga..dracula banke !!! :P

preetipandey*****: hahahaa.....darao!1

me: sunau kya ajeeb- kahaniyan !!!!

preetipandey*****: mai BA banke daraungi ..phir

me: hahahaha....nahi aisa mat karna....maafi sarkar !!!

preetipandey*****: hahahaa........haan ..panga mat liya karo mujhse

me:Muniya darati hai !!

preetipandey*****:GOOD MORNING !! bale bhaiya!! :D

me:Good morning pyaali behna :D

(A chat at around at 5 in the morning) :)

Must be contemplating what’s so wonderful or still looking for that hidden distinctiveness with this chat which got this to be posted here…read on and you would realize what it means :)

brother_sister

One thing I’ve learned is that we have to have inner happiness before one can be with someone and be happy. When you strip away the distractions and look inside yourself, what is it that makes you intrinsically happy? Is it money, friends, career, or what? Too often, people forget to think about this. It’s such a hard question to answer, because sometimes we can't see the difference between the things that make us happy and the things that just occupy our time.

I know that we feel sometimes like we’re trying to beat the clock. Squeezing the most out of the little time you have left to be a kid. Growing up is scary and losing all the very few friends we’ve made at school and being hurled into the grown-up lifestyle is jolting. But I hope that when you are ready for that next step, you remember to keep the things in life that make you happy. Those things aren't work, or your job, or your friends, or anything superficial like that. It’s about having those VERY FEW special people in your life who will keep you happy inside all the time, can make your job tolerable, will sustain you and carry you through life, even the rough parts.

Still didn’t get me, she is my most lovable sister Preeti, recently found a friend in her (as she has grown up to share and discuss important n critical things too) and a very special person in my life to whom I can confess, crib, curse and laugh aloud without being conscious of what she might think of it, I can very well be me and joke about silliest things like a 10 year old. :D

And the best part about being with her, is she is almost like ME, be it her good points or the worst things … its all so common between us .. probably this is why we are so compatible and we very recently discovered can fight a lot too … but that’s how every brother-sisters are meant to be … ! Love our relation and her and 'me' too :)

73 people read and said:

preeti said...

Thank u bhaiya...for dedicating ur post 2 me...I m touched , n honoured to know ur views about me (though i know dem already :P )
I alwaz get a chance to know more about u .. thru ur posts....which r gud enough in revealing other side of urs.
U just reminded me of our childhood days ....when as usual u used to take my side.. :D...n ya ..dat what v have lost in d past few yrs ..by not being in contact ...but ..now i m going to make d fullest of dis ...sweetest realationship.
Anywaz cuming back to ur post ....do i need to say anything ...infact i don't have any words ...rite now .. except my true feelings ..saying dis dat..obviously "RE" its d best post of urs ...for me.
Best wishes from ur sissy ...good luck. :)

neha said...

hey sourav ..

i am already a fan of ur blog since long ..

is blogmarking diffrent then this? if yes then do enlighthen me ..

coming back to ur post i feel the best person in ur lyf can b the 1 with whom u can be ur true self and not fake ..

i am glad u have such a sis ..

so wht did u give her at the rakhi? :P

siblings do make lyf easier or shud i say "livable" which even at times ur friends or parents or lover dont tend to have tat power to do so..

:)

Naina said...

it is so wonderful to have found a friend in your sister.. you are truly blessed..
and god bless you Preeti..


Rane

sonali said...

tooooo good, kya baat hai saurav, aaj kal tum bhi achcha likhne lage ho, hahahaha...kidding yaar.
loved your post, lucky siblings...hope u guys stay as friends always :)

S said...

No thanks need Preeti :) Thank you for being so good, supportive and understanding me always :)
And I know I write well :P

Its not only me who keeps reminding you of bachpan ke din, its you too..the more I talk to you the more vividly I can remember everything ... and yes mai toh humesha se tumhare side hu ;) :D

Well thank you again for calling this the best post for exclusively you and our sweet relation .. you'd always be the most loved kid of mine, Preeti :)

Love and wishes for you too !

S said...

Hey Neha, thank you so much ... yoou really honored me well here :D

Blog-rolling is when you display the blog on your list of favorite blogs on your own, like I'm showing off yours :P

Rakhi gift is still pending .. would get her something really exclusive :D

And yes I really agree with that, sometimes it's siblings who make lives simpler and more pleasurable ... ! :)
Take care !

S said...

Rane, I'm really blessed .. no doubt :) Thanks a lot on behalf of Preeti and me too :)
Take care ... and all the best with your MBA :)

S said...

Sonali, haan yaar bus thoda baut ;)
Yeah lucky we are ... thanks for the wishes ! :)

Hafsah said...

that's so sweet, wen i was readin the convo at the beginning, i was constantly thinkin dat hy..that's the way i usually talk to my elder bro..n then u said it :)
never let that inner kid die :) its the main source of our happiness

Deepika said...

It is one of the most beautiful relationship we are born with....

Same goes for me and my brothers to... At times we talk like small kids and sometimes seriously as good friends and this is one relation we can always rely upon.... Which never betray or leave us :)

scarlet pimpernel said...

Hi
wonderful blog
I wish i had a sister :-)
i have a brother and when we were kids we did fight a lot, he used to tell me that i was ugly and i used to cry :-)
I had the last laugh on that matter because when we went out yesterday not less than 3 people asked us if we were twins

fivefeetsmall said...

yeh lo jee !
i paid a bhisit !
really a nice one :-)
i have a sister too...so i knw wt a sibling relationship is like...
i like the chat-thing...nice :)
PS:and i don't have a crush on u !!

Ann said...

Hey Sourav ! that's soo sweet... In life we really forget about the most precious relations god has gifted us and take them for granted... It's great that your sister is your friend... and you need not to run around for sharing your stuff..May God bless both of you :)

Pree-yea said...

That's kinda like the relationship I share with my own brother.

Though its different in many ways than one. Like there are certain days when we can't stand each other. And certain days when we want to spend all the time in the days with each other.
Besides, He's like a mature version of me.

Great post! :)

P.S: You should keep visiting me. I'm irregularly regular. :P

Pree-yea said...

All the time in the 'day"

*stupid typo!

rashmi said...

Well do u really need my comments? u already hv loads of dem !
I wud just say ki "kash mera b koi aisa bhai hota jo mere liye post dedicate karta" huh !
Anyway...i found an essence of real bonding between both of u in the displayed chat tat brot smile on my face.
N I can assure myself atleast tat u r a kinda person who is eligible to make everyone happy.
Keep happy-ing :)

rashmi said...

Well do u really need my comments? u already hv loads of dem !
I wud just say ki "kash mera b koi aisa bhai hota jo mere liye post dedicate karta" huh !
Anyway...i found an essence of real bonding between both of u in the displayed chat tat brot smile on my face.
N I can assure myself atleast tat u r a kinda person who is eligible to make everyone happy.
Keep happy-ing :)

S said...

Thank you Hafsah ... it's always nice to have your views .. this bro-sis relation is one of the best n cutest relation one can have .. nice to know that u share such relation wd ur bro too ... lucky we ! :) And Im and wud be a kid only to my sis :P

S said...

True Deepika, one of the blessed relation anyone can have where you get many qualities in an individual ! :)

S said...

@scarlet pimpernel ... lol on that .. no offence meant ... either both of u r ugly or both of u r wonderful (which I really believe u guys must be) :)

Welcome and keep coming :)

S said...

@Mugdha ... it's ok girl, even if u have a crush on me .. i don't mind that :P

And that was jus a part we chat, if anyone reads what we talk, me n preeti wud have been called freaks :D

S said...

The next door girl, (wonder where u live next door to me) :P ... thanks for the wishes and I'm really fortunate to have a sweet lil God's blessing in my life :)

S said...

Pree-yaa .. that's the differnce .. even if we fight, we make it up soon .. and it's so much more to do so :D

And yeah, thanks for the typo, i get one more comment ;) !

P.S. I'm regularly irregular to your blog :P

S said...

Well do u really need my comments? u already hv loads of dem !
I wud just say ki "kash mera b koi aisa bhai hota jo mere liye post dedicate karta" huh !
Anyway...i found an essence of real bonding between both of u in the displayed chat tat brot smile on my face.
N I can assure myself atleast tat u r a kinda person who is eligible to make everyone happy.
Keep happy-ing :)

@Rashmi .. I love your comments ... keep coming more often :)
Arey bhai nai toh bf ko bolo :P :P
And yeah we bond and gel really well... that chat was just a sweet lil eg, glad it could get u smiling :)
And thanx for the appreciation, I'm happily happy'ing ... and wud try happy'ing you too :D and thnx for posting twice yet again :D

Meher said...

Well the cutest part about this post is that,it brings back to me memories of all those people I love being with.
all those people who just filled my day with joy.
Since I'm a lone child,I basically relied on friends.
I take this space to say I love you Prakhar,to the sweetest friend,I've had..!!

S said...

@Meher :) Glad to know that it helped u revive your sweet memories of being with the loved ones :)
No probs, Meher I can be a good friend to you too :)

And Prakhar, you are lucky mate, to have a friend like her who is being loved by a lovely person like Meher .. ! Take care and God bless both of you :)

Aditya Tibrewala said...

really amazing blog with awesome content. keep up the good work !!!

S said...

@Aditya .. I don't need comment for formality's sake ! Thnx and don't come back please !

Saad Shaikh said...

Sourav.. its really good to find a friend in your brother/sister.. cuz when that happens, its altogether a different relationship that forms ahead and above the average sibling relationship..

off late, co-incidentally, something similar is happening with my life too.. and I know what kind of feeling is it to share such things which sometimes you wouldn't even prefer to share with 'just' a friend..

well, about WTF'ing.. I'm doin it from DMS, Pune Univ.. or fondly known as PUMBA.. the name sounds cartoonish.. but they have those real devil streaks.. :P today was my first day and I returned home late at 8.. wondering how it will all work out in future.. waise bhi, I have decided to try n chill this time.. :D

well MDI is a premier insti.. how is it goin there.. I'm sure the pain in the arse must have been equally painful.. :P

thanks for following my blog n leaving a comment too.. otherwise I wouldn't have known abt your wonderful blog.. will check out other posts too.. gotta do some time mgmt now.. lol :D and yeah.. I don't know if I'm an intelligent blogger, but I'm definitely not intellectual.. you must've got the essence of that from the current post itself.. :P

keep writin'.. :)

vineet said...

awesum u r truly cherished man...,.wat a post buddy..dedicated 2 ur sis..cant b more lovelier dan dat

Meher said...

you dedicate to your siso,I dedicate to my dad..!!check ou my new post..!!

Anonymous said...

Hey, first thing first...like your blog very much. its look,your posts.
now about this post. Yes its always nice to have someone to share our emotions,view points with..and if that person is your sibling then it is wonderfully wonderful.

Shraddha said...

Hey Sourav ... nice to know that u share such a wonderful relation with ur sister ! :)

Keep writing :)
Take care !

Raj said...

VERY FEW special keep you happy inside all the time.

you seem to know whats important. :)

Cindy said...

I have a really good relationship with my sister as well! We also fight a lot, but that's just a sign of looooove:))))

~ Lopa said...

Nice blog Sourav,

My bro and sis are my best frnds too... I have never fought with my bro as he is youngest in we 3, but me and my sis we used to fight a lot, but lately as we grew up we started sharing everything and now we always do.
We 3 share a special bond, can share anything and everything and we know each other so well that we never have to think what other might feel or think abt us... so nice finding frnds in siblings !

I feel lucky and You are damn lucky too ;)

~ Lopa said...

Nice blog Sourav,

My bro and sis are my best frnds too... I have never fought with my bro as he is youngest in we 3, but me and my sis we used to fight a lot, but lately as we grew up we started sharing everything and now we always do.
We 3 share a special bond, can share anything and everything and we know each other so well that we never have to think what other might feel or think abt us... so nice finding frnds in siblings !

I feel lucky and You are damn lucky too ;)

Varsha said...

great to know that u share such a special bond with ur sister.
its really awesome to have siblings.
its like having a friend 24/7 around u.
even i have great fun with my elder brother...
anyway great post
keep writing :DDD

S said...

@Saad .. Thanx and welcome to my blog ! :) My WTF'ing part is over .. and I'v taken to another WTF'ing ... and thats a F***ed up job ;)

And yeah wish you all the luck and a bright career with your PUMBA :)

And who cares if one is intellectual enough or not... all you need is intelligence in today's world :)

And i'll still maintain .. you're a smart and a clever blogger (ooops just added two more adjectives to your greatness) :P

And yeah keep coming ... great to see you here in my blog :)

S said...

@Vineet .. thanks dude, and welcome to my blog ! :)

@Meher .. finally checked your blog and left a comment there too ... yours was a lovely post :)

S said...

@Shilpa ... thanks for liking my posts and blog as well.. will give your blog a visit too very soon :)

@Shraddha ... thanks for finally coming to my blog and yeah I'm really lucky :)

S said...

@ScarletTd1ar1es : Thanks for coming and for people who just love, you don't have to realize their importance ... they make it felt to u ! :)

... And yes I like your blog too ... keep visiting and be happy :)

@Cindy ... thanks for the follow and welcome to my blog ... yeah that's just a sign of being in love with your siblings ... ! :)

S said...

@ Lopa .. welcome and thanks for liking my blog and posts so much that u actually commented TWICE :D :P

Good to know that you find a friend in your siblings too and can share everything under the sun to them :)

I agree, we are REALLY lucky :)

Keep coming to my blog ... wud give you a visit too :)

S said...

great to know that u share such a special bond with ur sister.
its really awesome to have siblings.
its like having a friend 24/7 around u.
even i have great fun with my elder brother...
anyway great post
keep writing :DDD

Varsha, a rainy welcome for you on my blog yeah, its raining outside :P and thanks for liking my post ! :)

I'm blessed with lovely siblings ... and you seem to be the pampered one by your elder brother ;)

Well ... the insect cutter your blog was equally nice too :P

rachaelgking said...

Aw, this is so sweet. :-) Makes me miss my own sister!

Unknown said...

D 1st person dat came to my mind ,while reading dis post, is my brother Apurv...
as we grew up he acted like he didnt care..bt i alwaz knew he luked out 4 me & alwaz dere....bcoz of our busy lives dere has been a communication gap b/w us...so thanx 4 making me realize dat though how much busy we r...we shuld not loose dis precious time anymore... my love 4 him cant be explained in words & yes dis is d sweetest relationship dat one shares.

Preeti...my small sissy is d most genuine girl i have seen.
she is a little bit of childhood dat can never be lost...we hav shared so many thing n time gud or bad... we fight,laugh.. sometimes she irritates me a lot wen she doesnt leave me room.... :P
bt she is mine friend too..n seriously i cant imagine my life without her....

Nice 2 see dat 1st time u hav dedicated post on some1 else.. dat too on preeti.. d very special girl in my life..
yes i m d only proof of ur BAKWAAS chats which u both do everytime..althogh u both make me angry by making fun of mine..:(
bt still sumwere nice 2 see u both doing dis bakwaas n also dat after such a gap..u both r still same n alwayz on each others side.. :)


I really wish now watever may be d conditions we dont loose contact& no gap comes b/w us...& u both remain same & alwaz share dis beautiful relation..

love u both.. :)

Cinderella said...

This reminds me of my brother. he is precisely 3 yrs younger to me, and we've been best buddies since childhood. Always.

God bless you both.
:)

Saad Shaikh said...

Proud to be a sadist.. :P actually!!

good to know that your wtfing part is over.. :D I guess I have someone who can now guide me along the line.. :)

as far as your Urdu is concerned, its perfect and the words are right.. ;)

abt the adj smart n clever.. :P remember those 2 words when you come to my blog the nxt time.. I'm sure you'll take them back... :D

anyways, thanks for wishing me luck with my MBA.. :)

Aeish said...

Isn't it wonderful that all of us choose to right about some of the most loved people in our lives and execute it so beautifully? your blog is very interesting Sourav, I love it:D

You must av read about me in my profile, if there's anything else you wanna know, i'll be glad to answer:D

P.S I'm following you don't worry!:D

Unknown said...

Hi, cant write a comment on all the posts as of now, too busy:)but am the 50th one to comment on this post.

I like your way of expression and its good to know you two share a bond and are able to express it to each other. Not all know how to manifest the love for their siblings.

Ekam said...

Such a sweet post. God bless you both:)

Unknown said...

Awww ... that was really cute !!

I still remember, you told me about her years back ... never knew u guys are so close and attached !

@Preeti: You lucky girl, you got a friend, guide, 'bale-bhaiya',confidante and a person with whom u can just be you and share all your heart out too :)

@Sourav: And you are luckier to have her ... she is so cute !Wish I could call her my sister too .. would have pampered her like hell, which I'm very sure you do :)

May god bless both of you and a perfect example of wonderful brother-sister and yeah well penned down Sourav :)

G said...

Hey Sourav...first of all..im really sorry for not being frequent and not leaving comments even if i did read ur post... =(
sorry (kaan pakad ke)...!!!

i loved this post of urs.. =)
and yeah..i have a five year old brother..cant share my secrets and stuff with him..he wont know what im talking about!..lol..but yeah..when i need the normal playtime... its him i run to!...he pulls my hair..beats me up..why??..cuz i try to kiss him.. =D
but i guess its worth it..once i get the kiss..lol..

And by the way.. im the same person who cried rivers on finding out that i was going to have a sibling.. =/ ...i wanted to be the only child!...mean..i know..

Anyways.. beautiful post!..its actually great to have siblings... elder or younger..it hardly matters..but its one of the best relationships that everyone should have in their life!... =)

take care.
xox

S said...

@Lilu .. Thanks and welcome to my blog :)

@Pooja .. Apurv .. yeah I miss him too :) and I'm so glad to know yoy such a sweet relation with him too ! But you need out cut the comm. gap !
Won't be writing another post on Preeti now,she is always sweet to me :D ... and btw pl stop copying lines from the testimonials I send ! And NO thanks for being the only proof to our chats :P .. and yeah, we'd all be in touch now as long as eternity ! :)
Thanks for dropping by !

S said...

@Cindrella ... Don't we love this sharing .. we do :)
Thanks and welcome to my blog .. keep coming !

@Saad .. yeah sadist and pessimists, big time :D .. yeah lemme know if u need any help :)
And yeah you are so Saadi'ish .. just u ! ;)
Shabba khair :)

@Cidny ... this is the most beautiful love-hate relationship !
Keep fighting ;)

S said...

@Aeish .. Thanks for the comment, and for liking it too... it feels so good to have comments from across border :)
Who's worried, you are on my facebook, followers, etc .. ! :P
Take care!

@ Thanks Kanika that was a sweet 50th comment to have :) Glad you liked what I could express !

keep coming and be well !

S said...

@Ekam .. thanks ... god bless you too :)

@ Himani (Meneka) .. That was a wonderful comment .. u made me smile:) ... from Preeti n me : thanks .. we are lucky .. we know :D

Thanks for liking the post and coming back to my blog after ages !!!! :P

S said...

@ Gargi .. LOL (kaan pakadke) .. Jao maaf kia .. aage se galti ki aesi toh dekh lena :P

you scary monster .. you scare away ur brother trying to kiss him... lol, that was so cute .. I mean I can already imagine you running behind him ! :D

You cried .. lol ... mean yet honest girl ... and yeah it's so much fun to keep irritating your brother/sister ... young or small doesn't matter :D

Take care, you too and be regularly regular now :)

Deepak Hariharan said...

one helluva post bro!
me and my sis are stayin 2gether now..but think i will also miss her once we part our ways!!i want to be 10 years old again :(

changed your template..!good one!

Shas said...

Cute post!! a celebration of love and relationship.
May the bond that you share grow stronger and deeper with each passing day. =)

divsi said...

oh my god!!
this is so much in congruence to wat i n my sis were discussin ystde..bout the bond of frnship we share...
:)) wow!!
it feels great to read sumthin that ure thinkin bout a day ago...
sooooper cute post sourav!!:)
brilliant!!

Unknown said...

preeti i am here to say that u r really blessed to hv such a wonderful brother n yups i am sure sourav is more luckier to have u :)....wish ur bond grows stronger wid every passing day...n for sourav i say i hv run short of words how many times do u wanna here that wat u wrote is lovely...:)

Anonymous said...

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Khwahish said...

You both are blessed by God to have such a loving brother and sister. I also fall in great memories with my brother who is now abroad.

The Enchantress said...

Hey..Baby.
Dats a lovely post.These things we miss soo...much as we grow up.playing games,getting dirty in mud ,getting hurt,bhoot n all..u reminded me my childhood...
Someone fetch me back dose days..

S said...

@Dj - Thanks! This relations will always be special, even we stay from our sisters! :)

@Shas -Thank you for the wishes! :)

@Divsi - Thank you! And I am glad you can associat to this post and relation in some way :)

@Khwaish - Thank you! Am sure you enjoy such a sweet bond too :)

@Poonam - Thank you so much!

@Nikita - Thank you Nikita! :)
No matter how old we get, such things make us a kid! Those days are here, just make sure you relive them :)

Unknown said...

lovely post Sourav, it touched my heart :) :)

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